Saturday, May 19, 2012

Love. Sex. Fucking.



Making love
There is that love energy... you know it when you feel it... it's Love.
There is a Respect.
A Sense of Loyalty.
An Honesty.
There is Balance... Nothing is too heavy.
You Support - You Encourage.
You can feel them / They can feel you.
You are Accountable for your actions....

Having Sex
You gotta have Love for each other..
Respect one another.
Being Honest is optional... that's just the truth.
Keep it real...
Smile because it feels good, Laugh because it's fun.
Be Accountable for your actions....

Fucking
You have to WANT to do it.
No matter WHAT... No matter WHERE.
No matter HOW...

Many of the other qualities listed above are optional.

And YES......You are Accountable for your actions....


Some things you should know 
or at least think about....

Choose wisely and well. 
Attraction happens to people for all kinds of reasons.


Don't confuse sex with love.

Know your needs and speak up. This is not a guessing game.

Respect, act in ways so that your partner always maintains respect for you.



Manage differences... Disagreements don't sink relationships.     Name-calling does.

If you don't understand or like something, say something. Don't assume you know.

Solve problems as they arise. Don't let resentments simmer.

Truly listen, to your partner's concerns and complaints without judgment.
Work hard at maintaining closeness. 
Closeness doesn't happen by itself. In its absence, people drift apart


Some dependency is good, but complete dependency SUCKS! It's a whole other topic...  Keep your self-respect and your self-esteem... And they have to have their own as well.


Stay open to spontaneity.

Wanna Maintain your Stamina? 
Stay in shape!

Please believe this:
All relationships have ups and downs.
More often than not, they don't las forever...




Bottom Line:
Love is not an absolute, not a thing that you're in of or out of.  
It's a feeling that comes and goes depending on how you treat each other.

Sex requires some love but is more of a fun "in the moment" thing.  It's not as emotional as "making love" or as deep as most people make it out to be...

Fucking...
It's for those who have "made love", had sex, and want or need more.
The thing about fucking... You have to know what your doing,
You have to WANT it bad...
you have to LOVE to FUCK...

Otherwise, well,  you ain't fucking.





Good Luck,
The Bad Man

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