Friday, May 11, 2012

Ten ways to mess up your relationship...



"You'll never find anyone like me again!"
I'm thinking, 'I hope the fuck not! If I don't want you,
why would I want someone like you.'

10 Stupid Things Couples do to Mess up Their Relationship
Acording to:
Dr. Laura Schessinger


1. Stupid Secrets:
Withholding important information for fear of rejection.
It’s the struggle against selfishness.
Privacy is something you 'give' out of respect.
Secrecy is when you feel guilty about something you can't tell you partner or spouse.

2. Stupid Egotism:
My freedom/ rights to do what I want are more important than your feeling/ needs
Ask not what you can do for this relationship ask only what this relationship can do for you!

3. Stupid Pettiness:
Make a big deal of the small stuff.

4. Stupid Power:
Never lose an argument
Never sacrifice anything
Always need to be in control
Never let the other forget he or she messed up.

5. Stupid Priorities:
Consuming all your time and energies:
Work
Hobbies
Errands
Chores
Missions
- and an unmade bed has a higher priority than the relationship.

6. Stupid Happiness:
Seeking stimulation and assurance from all the wrong places
To satisfy the immature need to feel good vs.. to be good.

7. Stupid Excuses:
You fight back with excuses, which just cause more damage –learn to apologize.

8. Stupid Liaisons:
Staying attached to relatives and friends who are outright bad influence
and destructive to your relationship

–allowing these folks to hurt your partner.


9. Stupid Mismatch:
Seeing red flags clearly and yet you stay around trying to put a square peg in a round hole
–not knowing when to leave and cut your losses.


10.Stupid Breakups:
Disconnecting for all the wrong reasons.



You forgot being whinny, needy, negative attitude, anger issues and just being plain loco.


If I were you?

I’d get a sense of humor real quick!
Try seeing it like this…
I know, but try….


Hey, People change… and forget to tell each other.



Sometimes you have to get to know someone really well 
to realize you're really strangers. 

You cannot be lonely

if

you like the person you're alone with.





I've learned that people will forget what you said, 
people will forget what you did,
But people will never forget how you made them feel.


Men are from earth. Women are from earth. Deal with it.

  Bottom line?

I love you and because I love you
I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth
than adore me for telling you lies.




Sincerely,
The Bad Man

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